Thank you Gerda, for telling me to give you my diamond engagement ring for your wedding to Frey, so I'd be with someone better. I've never given such an expensive offering but I did so without hesitation because I know you have the kind of love I deserve, to be loved on my terms, as who I am, without changing. You removed the man I was dating immediately, saying he was good but not worthy, sparing me the disaster of a road of pain. I trust you more than myself when it comes to settled long-term relationship partners who truly love me, lobe being a verb. Thank you for your shelter and stability in emotionally confusing times of hormones and unresolved iss!